In one single encounter the other day, I believe that I made a choice that would make my mother & Laura Vanderkam proud, while simultaneously embarrassing my children (always a bonus). We were in the midst of another week where we all seemed to be running, coming & going. Recently I went back to work full time after 3 years of part-time work and we are all still adjusting.
While driving my daughter to soccer practice, I noticed a lawn care truck in front of a neighbor’s house. A seemingly nice man was putting away his mower when I shamelessly accosted him and asked if he had any time to cut our grass. Typically this falls into ‘husband’ category, not that this Kentucky girl hadn’t handled a SNAPPER mower on my childhood farm for MANY years, but said husband had been dealing with his own crazy work stuff and getting home late and exhausted. Lawn care is certainly not in our budget, but at this moment when our grass had gotten to an almost embarrassing level, I decided that I could shave some money from one budget line or work a few additional hours JUST TO GET IT DONE.
My kids says that in the heat of the moment that I told Ron Busken (Busken Lawn Care) that I loved him when he agreed to the task (I’m denying it) and off we sped to soccer. When I returned, it turned out to be a bigger project due to the length/thickness of the grass and the odd angles in the backyard, but Ron was very nice and charged me a very fair amount for being ambushed at the end of his work day.
Fast forward a few hours when the heavens opens
and it starts to pour down rain, husband gets home and and is so happy that the deed it done – Priceless. Read more about determining your own priorities in regards to time and money in 168 Hours & All the Money in the World.










One comment
Comment by Tammy on October 8, 2012 at 5:53 pm
Great post! And very timely. I work in sales, which is in itself easily a 60-hour workweek. About a month ago I decided to take cash out and pay a friend to be my assistant–handle expense reports, send requested materials to customers, mass mailings, etc. Many were things that I’ve wanted to do for ages and couldn’t whilst maintaining sanity. I’m the first rep in my company to do this, but it is SO worth it.
We are considering the lawn service option next year as well, once we are out of debt. My husband really despises yardwork, almost as much as I despise *gently suggesting* that we have the worst yard on the block. That option will be totally worth having a nice yard and not arguing about it.